- A P (Pat) Egan
- Bob Cordiner
- Damian Bugeja
- David Inwood
- G J (Willie) Williams
- George Priechenfried
- Gordon Griffiths
- Joe Lecky
- Marek (Mark) Kostka
- Mike Hill
- Richard (Bully) Bull
- Steve Keen
- Stuart Laird
- Warwick Tilton
I have had the privilage to have known Damian for a number of years when I joined as a Colt in the early 80s. He was the only one of the brothers that I ever understood!!! You will be missed by all mateGraham Fletcher
Like Dave Green I got to know Damian well on that epic trip to Lourdes – and many years on, still so many happy memories! So sad to hear this news – but the 1st XV upstairs has gained a special player and a special person.Quentin MacLaurin
Very sad to hear of Damian’s death. We had our differences but were always good friends. Lots of laughs on and off the Rugby Pitch.Lyndon Foote
I was privileged enough to be part of a group of young boys who arrived at Ealing Rugby club in the summer of 1976. Damian was possible the smallest of the group in stature but certainly not in character. He was an inspiration to us all, playing for the first team for so long and becoming chairman. Damian epitomised the spirit of those Ealing Colts.
Over the last five years we became close friends. Damian demonstrated a dark sense of humour that came with facing his illness. His energy will be missed by all.Mark Lynch
A true gentleman who will be sadly missed. Always willing to talk and share a beer.Declan McGrath
I have Damian to blame for a lot of things – He took me out for lunch whilst on tour in Majorca on the infamous non rugby tour, and sounded me out about being Senior Chairman! Need I say more. He was an Ealing man through and through. There are very few like him. We will miss him, but as others have said, he is in a better place. Kick downhill first half mate….Dave Steene
Good afternoon everyone.
Last Friday Kate asked me to pop round to Damian’s Mum and Dad’s house so that we could chat through what we might say about Damian. For over two hours we giggled and laughed about his life. So, I think we’ve found our theme for the next few minutes, don’t you?
And so I’ll kick off with a little ditty from his mum and dad……When Damian was five they moved from Ladbroke Grove, to Ealing in search of a school for the lad. They found one, and he was very happy there for a few years, that is until they realised that St. Augustine’s was infact a school for Girls! No damage done, perhaps, but he did always hold a certain fondness for the Stade Francais Playing strip ( Pink, if you didn’t know!)
And so, he moved here to St Benedicts’s, his school until the age of 18. The scouts and camping weekends became firm favourites and quickly those around him came to know and love his, shall we say, ‘mischievous’ approach to life – the PRANKSTER was already on the first rung of the ladder! Hugely enthusiastic for his outdoor activities he held no truck with those who didn’t want to play, so, one weekend when on a camping trip and a few of his fellow campers decided they wanted to go home, he took them out on a night exercise, found the nearest phone box in the middle of nowhere, called the police to alert them to the fact that there were some abandoned children in a phone box and then he scarpered. The police responded quickly, and sure enough there they found them, wedged in , sheltering from the cold . Nothing was going to interrupt the enjoyment of Damian’s camping weekend. The police did actually run the kids home. Can you imagine the ramifications of call like that today?
Damian’s father told me that he once tried to blow up his bedroom! Why am I not surprised! This all came from his enthusiasm for Chemistry, a subject he was guided in by a teacher who meant much to him at Bene’s, Richard Baker.
From Scouts to the The Combined Cadet Force, more camping, more exploits – most of which I’m afraid I just can’t tell you about, but see the Club President afterwards! Long bicycling weekends with Father Stan, lots of school rugby, and soon this young man’s love of the outdoors was ingrained into him. An officer in The CCF, he had serious thoughts of a career in the Army, so much so that at University he joined the Officer Training Corps – I bet you didn’t know that!
His Scout Leader and friend, Dave Inwood – a man known to many of you here today – was to encourage him to join Ealing Rugby , and in 1976 so began his 34 years with our club…..his club. Many of you here today will have played with him as a Colt. I wonder if you played with him in his first game for Ealing against the Yorkshire side of Griffield ?
He was named Colt of the year in the 77/78 season.
He became a regular 1st XV player the following year and was recognised as ‘the player of the season in 80/81’. To pick out games of note….well we just don’t have the time, but, two I must mention. In a cup game against St. Mary’s, he ran the length of the field to score a try and win the game in the dying seconds. The prize was a quarter final against the mighty Saracens. And then, another Cup Final in 1984. John Critchfield, known to all Ealing players, recalls that Damian came back into the side at short notice against HENDON….. a team at the time of let’s just say “uncompromising individuals of questionable parentage”. Ealing won and in John’s words “Damian was quite brilliant that day”.
He went on to Captain the Extra 1st’s for many years and along the way took the scalps of The Scottish 3’s and the Met Police’s 2’s…both very high profile clubs in those days.
I asked Critch to sum Damian up as a player…”inspirational. He just had that knack of getting the best out of the players around him. He was a bit special.”
I guess now we move into that part of this tribute for which all of us must thank Damian and recognise his efforts for some outstanding achievements at our club…. and we’ll start with something that ultimately led to a world record for Ealing….a record incidentally we still hold. So, I must mention Charles Miller and the hours spent with Damian delivering leaflets……. why? Their idea for a Mini’s Section to Ealing Rugby Club. Today we see the fruit of that labour with one of, if not the largest Mini’s and Youth Sections of any club in England. That initial effort from Charles and Damian and supported by many others along the way has born further fruit as the club finalises it’s plans in the coming weeks for a re-formed Colt structure. Speaking with Charles, he tells me of him and Damian taking the Friday off before their first ever minis tournament, spending hours marking out the pitches only for it to bucket down over night and wash all the lines away. They had to start all over again on the Saturday morning. They laughed about it, but not at the time! Oh and by the way….that world record was for the largest overseas trip of any sporting club in the world. The Guinness World Record Certificate hangs in the club house next to the bar – have a look at it later and remember with whom it all started.
Now, there are many present in this Abbey today who owe their ‘extended’ rugby careers in the game to Damian. He and Bill Miller set to to re-introduce Vets rugby at Ealing. Numbers were hard to come by in those first days and so the call went out to players from Centaurs. They joined the effort and are still with us today. Friendlies became league rugby, and so it remains 9 years later. Now we all know that the Vets enjoy the occasional tour! none more memorable than the biggest ever to Mallorca for the subtle twist that it was a rugby tour with no rugby played! The ‘admin team’ who in fairness to Damian he was only one of, upon landing at the airport, held a team meeting in the nearest bar. Clearly there was much on the agenda, because they simply forgot to call their opposition to confirm the games! No matter, the meeting was re-convened!
And surprise, surprise, over the last few days the Vets have been on another tour, this time Zagreb, and in between pints….i’m sorry games, Bill Miller spoke with me and asked that I speak with Kate to see if she would be comfortable with an end of season game to take place between The Evergreens and The Exiles to honour Damian. She gave that blessing, and so, I am delighted to announce that tomorrow evening a game will take place under floodlights at Vallis Way between the Evergreens and the Exiles.
I want to make this roll-call of the offices Damian held in the club – he was Club Secretary, Chairman of Minis, Chairman of Youth, Club Chairman -Twice – he still is our Chairman, he was a Vice President and 1 of only 5 life members, the highest honour the club can bestow. I doubt others will ever have such responsibility and gain such recognition.
Now, squeezed into his life was his work and his friends at Satelcom and lately Logicalis. I asked Duncan Kelly a good friend for many years for a story or two about our PRANKSTER. This is one I can tell you! – you know those horrible orange Wotsit snack foods? Damian pulverized a bag to a fine powder and then placed it Duncan’s air conditioning duct. Driving home Duncan activated the aircon, and was hit by a cloud that turned him and the inside of the car completely orange. Damian then sent a text to Duncan saying simply…. “you’ve been Tangoed” – quite brilliant.
For all his friends and colleagues at work, and Tom Kelly, his Ceo – from his family for the wonderful support you gave him during many years of illness – thank you.
Now here are a few things you may not know about Damian:
He genuinely enjoyed DIY – very strange! though apparently he often tore his hair out when on a job with his brother Nicholas….don’t know why!
He was a plumber.
He was a electrician.
He was a chef – but exotic food only!
He loved quizzes.
He championed the benefits of Strongbow Cider as a health food…yes you heard correctly! indeed he was successful in converting Brendan Kelly and Hugh Hutchison to see Strongbow as one of their ‘five a day’ vitamin supplements! it’s a programme they’re still on today btw!
From University, Damian held a BSc in Industrial Chemistry.
And then there was the time all rugby fathers dream of – to play in the same side as their sons, and HE did so with Justin and James. To the best of our knowledge, to play with 2 sons in the same side had never happened before at Ealing and I doubt that it ever will again.
Inceasingly over recent years he needed to spend time at the Royal Free in Hampstead in the safe and wonderful hands of Dr Patch and Dr O’Berne of the liver transplant unit – thank you Doctors for the care you gave…..and Di, his nurse who was always there when he went in to surgery and again when he came out – thank you. And to Richard, at his bedside so often and for so long, getting him back up on his feet again. The image of you Richard chasing him around Hampstead Heath with a wheelchair and a drip stand is deliciously funny – thank you. But he had nurses at home too, Kate of course, and his daughter Emma, to whom he was a devoted father.
It’s fair to say, following a liver transplant, some might decide to take things easy, Not our Damian! He took up tennis with Mario, he learnt to scuba dive with Julian, he continued to ski with his brothers Mark and Philip, and he discovered a love of fast motorcycles and trips to Le Mans amongst others, with Ricki, Frank, Phil and Declan……… and fast rides around the English countryside with me. There were places he loved to be – Switzerland with his brothers and his many friends, Somerset with Kevin & Alison, Spain with Gerald & Vicki…and a boat on the Thames with Ricki – Thank you, each of you.
Damian did not wish his life defined by ill health. He didn’t see it as HOW LONG he lived, but most certainly by HOW he lived.
He told a friend, that the trick was never to give up – from the time you give up, that’s it.
HE never gave up – What a fighter!
Thank you.Dick Craig – Eulogy
Damian joined the club in 1976 and featured in the Club’s very first Colts team managed by Dave Inwood. Damian was one of a number of young men from St Benedict’s who joined the club at that time and who were to go on to form the bedrock of the successful 1st XV of the 1980’s which achieved National League status for the first time in the Club’s history. Damian continued to play rugby throughout his time at the club captaining a number of sides and more recently turning out for the Evergreens on a regular basis.
One of Damian’s proudest achievements at the Club was his involvement in establishing mini rugby. Along with a band of other club members he brought the patter of ‘smaller feet’ to Berkeley Fields on a Sunday morning, coaching and managing the first mini rugby teams to don Ealing colours. We all know how these initial steps have developed into today’s successful minis and youth sides which now form such an integral part of our Club.
Off the field Damian served on the Club’s Executive Committee as Minis & Youth Chairman and twice as Chairman of the Club. Add in his work in creating our first Club web pages and acting as Webmaster, plus his elevation to Vice Presidency and Honorary Life Membership and you get the picture about Damian. He was tireless in his support and love for our Club and achieved so much that we will be forever in his debt.
Damian Bugeja passed away on Wednesday 12th May.Les O’Gorman
I have just scanned down through the names below, and super memories came flooding back of many fine people I knew in my years at Ealing Rugby Club – and none were finer than Damian Bugeja.
I think Damian was out training on Horsenden Hill with his brothers Phil and Mark the very first September session I went down to training at the old club back in the late eighties.
For 10 years after that, Damian was part of the club furniture. We played and trained together, sang badly, consumed the few pints, slagged each other off watching Ireland v England on the old big screen, generally had the crack, and enjoyed our Saturdays win, lose or draw.
The memory that stands out most for me was the time the two of us were the last to leave the Caernavon Hotel around 7am the morning after the 125th anniversary dinner, still standing and lamenting the lack of staying power of some of the other notables!
Clubs are made up of enthusiastic people, and in Damian, Ealing was fortunate in having one of those people who loved their club and contributed enormously to the richness of club life.
My heartfelt sympathy to Mark, Phil, Nick and all Damian’s extended family and huge network of friends who share my profound sadness at his leaving us much, much too soon.Pat Kirby